Dating in the modern world is hard. No one will deny that. But are you making it harder on yourself than it needs to be? There are several common dating mistakes of people mate, often without realizing it—especially when using a Hispanic dating site. Here are a few of those mistakes you should be aware of, what you can do to remedy them.
- Hoping she makes the first move.
It’s true that women are allowed to ask guys out, but it is also true that women want to be chased. If you find your results on dating sites are not what you want them to be, maybe you should take initiative make the first move.
- Not paying for the first date.
Yes, gender equality is life and well, but just like women want to be chased, they also want to be taken care of. And addition, paying for dinner and movie on the first date is just common courtesy.
- Talking too much about yourself.
You may think that women want to hear all about what you have done and what you plan to do, but if you talk too much about yourself, you’ll come off as arrogant and conceited. Both of those are major turnouts for most women. Don’t talk about what you do, but how you feel. Paul it’s okay to share that story about hiking the Grand Canyon, don’t talk about the miles you walked. Talk about how the beauty of nature made you feel.
- Over-the-top romantic gestures.
This isn’t the 80s, and you are not in 16 Candles. While you may think going all in for a romantic gesture is a great idea, for the first date, it’s probably not. In fact, it will likely just scare the girl away. Save that for when you’ve been dating six months and Valentine’s Day is coming up.…Continue reading »