So you ended your relationship with your girlfriend or boyfriend, but you still have desire for them. That’s perfectly normal, after all we can all close our eyes and still visualize ourselves having sex with our exes, bringing back some good memories that we are very fond of. In fact some of us still fantasize about our exes when we are with another partner. If the sex was good in your past relationship but other things didn’t work out, would it be worth just becoming a fuck buddy instead or is it easier said than done?
Fuck buddy – a relationship downgrade?
If you and your ex are still single and the breakup was amicable, it is actually very likely that you will end up having sex again if the two of you go out for a few drinks for example. You had a good thing going in the bedroom department and both of you know it. Maybe you will want to meet your ex for a drink or two and just flat out ask them: do you want to be my fuck buddy? It’s a bald question but it’s honest, and you don’t get anything in life unless you ask. Worse case they say no, best case they say yes, life choices don’t get that much simpler! The bottom line isthat you can always use adult dating sites like Sex With No Strings US site to find yourself a new fuckbuddy, but don’t give up too quickly; you ex might still be tempted!
Of course things will very much depend on how the two of you still feel for each other. If you are still in love or if your ex is, then it is probably a better bet to stay away from having sex with each other again. This might bring back the old flame for one of you, whilst the other feels differently. Fuck buddies work well when they both want the same, and having different feelings just brings that imbalance to the equation. Basically don’t have sex with someone if they still love you and you don’t, it is simply not the fairest way to treat people.
Jealousy or not
Fuck buddies have sex arrangements, but those tend not to be exclusive. What this means is that you ex might well be having sex with other people and so can you. You need to make sure you are okay with the non-exclusive nature of your sex arrangement, or else you will feel jealousy and things won’t work out so well for the two of you; with arguments and drama ahead. Sex is meant to be for fun, if you can’t handle you ex having other partners, then don’t have sex with them.
You were good in bed once, you can be good in bed again. Furthermore not being in a serious relationship means that you can actually focus on the fun. Those of us who have had sex with their exes know that the sex is more fun and way naughtier when they are not actually officially together as a couple. This is probably the best argument to make your case to your ex: ‘let’s have sex without any of the hassle’. If the two of you can handle the emotional detachment, then you could well end up being the best fuck buddies ever; at least until you both decide it is time to move on.